🇬🇧 About transgender and gender identity

Hey! These are some random thoughts I had about transgender and gender identity. Maybe they make sense to you, maybe they don't. In any case, respect is mandatory.

I wrote about this yesterday on Instagram, and today I decided to publish a slightly longer version here. I recommend that you follow my profiles on social media, as I publish a lot of exclusive content there.

I think transgender people exist because they grow up hearing gender stereotypes. A boy wants to play with his sister's dolls and hears “dolls are for girls, not boys” and also hears in other contexts “boys don't cry” and other things that try to invalidate his tastes and behaviours based on his gender. A girl wants to have short hair and is told “short hair is for boys, not girls” and other “rules” based on her gender in other contexts. So, they feel that their tastes are not acceptable for those born with that body and they start to reject it and want to have a different body.

I am a woman who grew up playing with boys and I feel comfortable engaging in stereotypically masculine behaviours as often as I want, without the need to transform my body into a man's body. I've always been super thin and in the last 3 years my breasts are bigger than ever and I feel super hot with them, even though I liked my body when they were small.

I think we should eliminate these gender stereotypes about what boys and girls can and cannot do. However, I am against what some people are doing with language, looking for neutral pronouns in languages ​​where the pronouns are masculine and feminine. We don’t need to deny our gender through language. And we don't need to limit ourselves because we were born as we are.

Parents are the first ones who should accept their children as they are. Whether this happens or not, we must accept ourselves as we are. We are not supermarket products that need labels. We are human beings and human beings are complex.

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Nycka Nunes